Common Divorce Myths

Experiencing a divorce is difficult to handle alone, which is why most people tend to rely on their support system comprised of friends and family for guidance and strength. However, it is imperative to understand common myths and misconceptions related to divorce that people believe are the absolute truths.

The following are common divorce myths that your friend or family member may believe:

  • The mother gets to keep the kids. In many cases, the mother is often declared as the custodial parent while the father provides child support. However, when a divorce is hotly contested, the court will decide the outcome based on the child’s best interests.
  • Contested divorces are settled in the courtroom. Court litigation is lengthy and expensive, resulting in a decision that often benefits only one side. Fortunately, most divorce agreements are reached during the mediation process, where both sides are given the opportunity to work out the terms of their marriage that benefits everyone involved.
  • A spouse can deny the other spouse a divorce. Florida is considered a no-fault divorce state, meaning that if one spouse wants to end a marriage, then the other cannot trap him or her from filing a divorce.
  • If you commit adultery, the at-party gives up everything. Adultery is not considered a factor in property division and spousal support in Florida. However, if the court finds out that the cheating spouse used a large sum of marital assets on an extramarital affair, then adultery will be a factor in determining financial matters.
  • If the noncustodial parent frequently fails to pay child support, you can deny visitation privileges. Child support and visitation are separate issues. Courts often frown upon parents who try to use this tactic to gain leverage in financial matters. If a noncustodial parent fails to pay monthly child support, you can take the case to court.

The best thing to do is follow the advice of your lawyer. Due to your attorney’s legal experience and knowledge of the state legal system, you can ask him or her whatever questions you have regarding divorce and receive the correct answer for each one.

With decades of experience, our Okaloosa County divorce lawyers at Chesser & Barr, P.A. can thoroughly review your case and determine all of your available legal options to obtain the most favorable outcome possible. Do not hesitate to let us fight tirelessly for you, and help you make a successful transition into your next chapter in life.

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